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Subject: Rim jobs
Author: Carl Ebah
Date: 7/10/2007 1:15 pm EDT
Would I be defying my oath of saving my virginity, if I let my girlfriend give me a rim job?
Subject: RE: Rim jobs
Author: Richard
Date: 7/14/2007 11:00 am EDT
I think the answer lies in why you made the oath to begin with. If you made the pledge just to avoid pregnancy, then it wouldn't matter. If you think that sex is just something that people do to please each other and is not something special to be reserved for an absolutely committed relationship like marriage, it wouldn't matter.
If you made it to save sexual intimacy for your future wife, then ask yourself, "how would my future spouse feel about my engaging in this kind of sexual activity with someone else before I got married?" How would you feel about your future wife giving a "rim job" to another guy before she marries you?
Can I ask you: what are your goals in life? What do you want to be doing in 10 years? In 20?
Best,
Richard
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Subject: ?Love?
Author: Piseth
Date: 6/6/2007 9:58 pm EDT
Hi! I'm So happy to see this board.
I'm 17 nad this year I'm in Grade 12, finish high school soon.
2 girls at grade 11, are very charming to me.
I really love them. Is it good to have girlfriend in this time.
I alway dream about them, both of them are simple friends, and both of them like&love me as much as each other.
and.... What Sholud I Do?
Subject: RE: ?Love?
Author: Richard
Date: 6/12/2007 10:53 pm EDT
it's a wonderful feeling to be in love and to have others who like to be with you, isn't it? Let me ask you some questions that may not seem to be related to those feelings. What are your future goals in life? What do you want to achieve? Also, do you know what the goals are of the two girls you say that you "love"? If you truly love someone could you do something that would endanger her future goals and well-being? If you truly love yourself could you do something that would endanger your own future goals and well-being? Feelings of infatuation are wonderful as long as you don't violate these other important things. Do you understand?
Richard
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Subject: i dunno
Author: april
Date: 5/28/2007 1:46 am EDT
Firstly Hey! Ok so me and this boy have been messing four about 5 months....And he just resently asked me out nd i said yes we have been going out 4 about a month now nd he already wants to have sex i am so afraid its crazy....Its funny because one time he tried and i used one of those lines that a free teen lady tought us..''im a V.I.R.G.I.N''its was pretty funny anyways i tell him no all the time nd he says to me april i love u ...I mean I love him well at least i think i do but im so scared ...what should i do???
[[april]]
ps>please reply
Subject: RE: i dunno
Author: Kurt
Date: 6/1/2007 3:57 pm EDT
hold your ground April! I think your doing the right thing to wait and it takes guts to follow what you think is right.
Subject: RE: i dunno
Author: Richard
Date: 6/1/2007 4:58 pm EDT
April, I agree with Kurt's advice. If you give in, he'll lose interest in you since he's "conquered" you... Sorry to admit a lot of my fellow males are immature predators. Not all though! Look for someone who respects you and other women. There are some good guys out there!
Subject: RE: i dunno
Author: Loretta
Date: 6/18/2007 11:47 am EDT
dear April,
if he really loves you why is he always pressuring you? He just wants what he wants.
Loretta
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Subject: sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author: Maraine
Date: 4/30/2007 12:49 am EDT
sex is shouldnt be done unless your married period. nothing after that so if u give ur body up before marriage you should very ashamed of ur self.
Subject: RE: sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author: ravynn
Date: 5/11/2007 11:53 am EDT
thats not true you shoudny say thing like that bcuz people make masikes and if u were one of thoser people that made that matiks you wouldnt be saying that our god is a forgiving god and he will for give you shouldnt be like that and you should be married yeah but hey every body maks mastaks
Subject: RE: sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Author: Me! Of Course
Date: 5/14/2007 1:29 pm EDT
Sex is strong thing in relationships and i think you shoudl wait till marriage cause your body is special and you husband or wife should be the first to have sex with.
Subject: Women
Author: Brad
Date: 8/4/2007 1:26 am EDT
Tonight's story is somewhat unique and calls for a different kind of
> introduction
> If I saw you in heaven
> Would it be the same
> If I saw you in heaven
> I must be strong
> And carry on
> Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven
> As time goes by you'll come to see
> That you don't need no one but me
> Give you everything you need
> Even get down on my knees
> Just as long as you believe
> Be with me and you'll succeed
> Tunnel
> Is just the freight train coming your way......
> It's coming your way
> It's coming your way......
> Here comes
> Yeah, Then it comes to be that the soothing light at the end of
> Your Tunnel
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Subject: HELP! sex
Author: Megan
Date: 3/25/2007 6:35 pm EDT
so heres my situation:
I'm 16 and 2 weeks ago I hooked up with this kid in the back of my car for the first time and I ended up losing my virginity to him. Well since then we hooked up like 2 more time but i only gave him head because i was on my period. We probably will do it again though. I think i want for then a friends with benefits releationship. I dont think im ready to just be haveing sex with this kid all the time and not have him be my boyfriend. I don't really know what he thinks about "going out" but im afraid to sound to clingy. how should i ask for somthing more then just meaningless sex without sounding clingy.
Subject: RE: HELP! sex
Author: Ms. Linda
Date: 3/31/2007 11:29 am EDT
Hey Megan!
Thanks for writing. You sound like a very interesting young lady!
Also, very confused about the physical and emotion consequenses of having sex as a teen.
Have you spoken with your parents about taking you to your doctor to be checked regularly for STDs? Being that one out of every four sexually active teens in the US have at least one STD, and condoms have been proven to not "protect" teens, it might be worth looking in to. Remeber there is no cure for Herpes, HPV(genital warts) or HIV. If you do not consider yourself mature enough to deal with the conseuences and to also share this with your parents, is there a possiblity that maybe this activity is not right for you right now?
Is this "b-u-d-d-y" ready to become a father and be involved in your child's life? Seeing that one out of every four teen couples who do use a condom to prevent pregnant, become pregnat within the first year, it may be wise to have a clear understanding with him before you are faced to deal with this alone. 4 out of every 10 children in our country are born to a single mom and it sounds like you like to be free and have fun, as you should be!
Research shows that young teens who have multiple partners become more depressed than those teens who wait until as adults they can form amutually faithful, monogamous relationship. Also, by having these casual. "friends with benefits", realtionships, you not only put yourself in danger for being the victim of abuse, you lessen your ability to bond in the future with a man who is worthy of such a fine girl as yourslf.
What are your goals in life? What do you want to become or do? I would really like to hear from you!
Holla Bac!
Ms. Linda
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Subject: Abstinence
Author: Cilene
Date: 1/26/2007 3:58 pm EDT
I'm committed to wait for my future husband. I'm receiving peer pressure at school so the Free Teens club has been very helpful to me.
Subject: RE: Abstinence
Author: Richard
Date: 1/29/2007 1:55 pm EDT
Dear Cilene,
Congratulations on your commitment to wait for your future husband. I know it may not be easy, but in the end it will be worth it! Keep loving yourself, your future and your future husband!
Best,
Richard
Subject: RE: Abstinence
Author: naeya
Date: 3/19/2007 10:23 am EDT
yeah thats the same way with me i want 2 stay abstinence even tho this guy doesn't speak 2 me anymore cause i wouldn't let him take my virginity.
Subject: RE: Abstinence
Author: Jessica
Date: 4/4/2007 1:37 pm EDT
it's ok if he does not talk to you anymore , as long as you know you made the best decision for your life and your self-respect. YOU GO GIRL
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