Sex
education in our high schools often spends quite a bit of time
discussing diseases and pregnancy prevention, but not so much about the
meaning of sexual intimacy. Yet if we truly want to motivate teens to
make smart decisions, don’t we have to help them to understand how too
early sex damages lasting emotional bonding and real intimacy?
The
Real Deal on Love, Relationships and Marriage, three video/DVD series
is a valuable new tool to help educators initiate discussions about
healthy relationships, stages of intimacy, and the documented benefits
of marriage.
The REAL DEAL DVD/video series tells the real deal about:
Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships
Stages of Attraction and Intimacy
Marriage– Benefits and Challenges
The personal story of Real Deal host Yvonne Harvey Williams
What are warning signs of an abusive relationship?
Is Living Together a good way to see if someone is marriage material?
What to look for in a date, or a potential marriage partner!
Is divorce the only solution to a troubled marriage?
How to prepare for a marriage that will last a lifetime!
The
REAL DEAL has 9 segments on a DVD or three video series for discussion
groups of teens, unmarried singles, as well as couples. Top experts on
marriage and relationships include: Maggie Gallagher, Pat Love, Michael
& Harriet McManus, Steve Stosny, Michelle Weiner-Davis, Nisa
Muhammed, Rozario Slack, Tom & Beverly Rodgers, John Van Epp.
Discussion questions at end of each section are also included in a 5
page discussion guide.
What others say about The Real Deal!
“I wish I had this video when I was younger, before I got married.”
“I really identified with the ‘Love Cocktail’ part.”
“Put the DVD in the player and could not stop watching it, very compelling!”
“Great job, keep up the great work, this is very important info!”
“Many couples would improve or enhance their relationships if they would see and apply the information shared on the video!”
What a teacher says about showing of “The Real Deal” in a High School Health Class:
"From
the first moment they began viewing the video until we finished 3
lessons later, they were engaged, asking questions and responding to
issues raised as well as being extremely attentive and well behaved.
Their interactions were very thoughtful and I was quite impressed by
the seriousness with which they took in the material, often reflecting
on relationships they had seen or been involved in. They began to see
healthier choices and that they had the power to create more positive
outcomes. The material brought up many issues relevant to their lives
and they could feel free to ask questions on how to resolve issues. I
have been told by guidance counselors that students feel more open to
seeking their services, which they believe will help to cut down on
much of the high risk behavior facing their student population."
Here are some comments written by students:
“What I liked most about
this class in about the different levels of attraction and love. The
reason why is because attraction relates to my relationship and really
made me think”(female)
“The thing I mostly like about this program is
that you get to learn about all the harmful conditions that can occur
so that you can know ahead of time.”(female)
“I have learned about the progression of love and being intimate with someone and what order it should be.”(male)
“The program deals with actual facts and information. Are there any more classes offered after school in the area?”(female)
“I liked the most the advice given on keeping a healthy intimate relat ionship.”(male)
“I liked knowing that there are teens like me and they’re going through the same situations.”(male)
“I like that they interviewed all those married
couples. Yes, I learned that it is good to have a happy relationship. I
think they should let adults watch ”(male)
“This was very informative. They were realistic about life.”(male)
“What I liked most was that the Real Deal is
telling us how to have a smart relationship and how to do good (well)
in life.”(female)
“It explained how to have an ever-lasting relationship.”(female)
“I liked when we learned that marriage is best
for love and for the children so that the children don’t blame
themselves for a divorce or problem.”(female)
To order a copy, please send an e-mail to Real Deal
